Trapped Archetype: The Pleaser
👋 Welcome, Pleaser.
You’ve been the emotional anchor for everyone else—so long, you’ve forgotten what it feels like to want something for yourself.
You anticipate needs. You soften tension. You keep the peace.
You pride yourself on being “easy to work with” and “there when it counts.”
But inside, there’s a quiet ache:
“Why does taking care of everyone else keep costing me… me?”
The Trap: You confuse being agreeable with being aligned.
You say yes to avoid conflict.
You keep things calm on the surface—while chaos brews beneath.
Your silence is protective. But it’s also exhausting.
The Tell:
You’re the go-to person… but no one asks what you need.
You swallow your truth to make others comfortable.
You’re tired of being the default yes.
The Shift:
You’re allowed to choose peace—even if it disappoints others.
You don’t owe anyone your self-sacrifice.
Your value doesn’t come from being easy, available, or agreeable.
It’s time to choose what feels true—not just what keeps things smooth.
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You’ve held everyone else together. Now it’s time to come home to you.
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Because choosing yourself isn’t selfish. It’s sacred.
Remember:
Saying yes to others at the expense of yourself is not kindness. It’s self-erasure.
And you don’t have to do that anymore.